How do you say goodbye?

So everytime I hear My Love by Ciara, it motivates me more and more to break off the friendship with Ramon. In my case there is no "in love" love -- it's only friendship love -- but it still almost perfectly describes how I feel:

[pre hook]
This circular motion is all we do
I'm so sick of going back and forth with you
You should have been happy to have me
You said you wanted to have some kids build a family(Now I)
Wish it wasn't true
It's killing me to do
What I gotta do
The problem here is you
Ain't nobody new not even my crew
Could take the place of you
The problem here is you

[hook]
Cause if you only knew what I felt for you
You would have held on tighter
Fought a little harder
Been a little smarter and now you're gonna miss my love
And one day soon you'll see
You'll reach out for me
Boy you had a keeper
Didn't know how to treat her
Should have felt a little deeper and now you're gonna miss my love

[verse II]

Kick it with ya friends (go)
Go out with other chicks (go)
Be all up in the mix (go)
You got the right to do it
You wanna be a pimp
Be treated like a prince
Go 'head and click the switch
Cause now you got ya crown back

[pre hook]

[hook]

[breakdown]

My hugs (and)My kisses
You know you're gonna miss it
And while you're tripping on the love we could have had
I'm moving on
I got to (and)
Ain't no looking back

[hook]


And that's how I feel about it!!! Seriously. Minus the love part and insinuation of a romantic relationship, this describe just how I feel about that guy. Everytime I hear this song it reminds me of what I got to do. The problem is: How do you tell someone who you've had a relationship with (albeit only a friendship) for the last 5+ years that it's over... just like that? I really don't know. Plus, we haven't really spoken spoken in the last two weeks or so. He hasn't even tried to call me in about a week. I think he is getting the hint.

Well, all I gotta say is "oh well!"